Luka's story
Artists meet Autism was founded in 2008, at the occasion of the first
"AuJa! Improv Festival ImprovMeetsAutism". It came out of the
efforts of Christiane and Deniz Döhler, who are treating their son's
autism with the Son-Rise Program®. Here is Luka's story in the words
of his father:
"My name is Deniz Döhler. I have loved and lived improv theatre
for over twelve years now. From the year 2000 my wife Christiane and me
have succeeded in pursuing it full-time and have made a living from it.
Improv theatre has given us more gifts than we would ever have thought
possible (for that we are infinitely grateful!): Be it the friendship
of other improv players, of groups, workshop leaders and the participants
in our own courses or the chance to introduce and teach improv in preschools,
schools and companies.
Yet I would have never imagined that the skills we acquired through improv
theatre would help tremendously with one of the greatest tasks our lives
had put up before us: bringing our son Luka Maximilian from his autistic
world into ours. Maybe some of you know Luka, who is now three years old
and at the age of 22 months was diagnosed with “suspected early-childhood
autism”. Let me give you a short account of his story:
Until recently, Luka didn’t take anything in his mouth and couldn’t
stand being touched on his face. Besides this, he rejected being fed with
a spoon, so stopping breast-feeding proved extremely dif-ficult. Eventually,
he refused eating altogether, and when he was about one year old, weighed
less than 7 kg or 14 lbs.
He didn’t play with other children but had a stereotypical way
of constantly spinning objects such as bowls. In the presence of children
of his age he seemed lost. He wouldn’t move anymore or cried when
things around him were getting a little noisy. At some point, he started
pinching other children’s faces in his weekly playgroup for toddlers
and no educational measure proved successful. Not surprisingly, we began
to avoid contact with children his age.
At the age of 18 months, our son had no access to speech yet; he couldn’t
understand anything and would not talk at all. He didn’t point at
objects to get something, his eye contact failed and he had no sense of
danger whatsoever. As Luka grew “stranger” our family life
grew more difficult.
One month later when experts dropped the term autism for the first time,
we started our search for helpful treatment. Eventually this led us to
an autism treatment program that is still hardly known in Germany: the
Son-Rise® program.
This program is very time-consuming and costly, since, depending on the
individual child, it may involve training for 40 to 60 hours per week.
As parents we would have been lost without the assistance of voluntary
helpers. Hence it became our goal to find 5 to 8 inspired people who would
work with Luka for 4 to 6 hours a week.
But where to find people who have the coolness to be watched through
a mirror, who are spon-taneous and creative and play interactive games,
who can accept impulses, make them stronger or transform them and, on
top of all that, are capable of working in a team and receiving feedback???
Finally,
the penny dropped: we just had to turn to improv theatre. After having
overcome an initial shyness, I started by telling one workshop participant
about the parallels between the pro-gram and improv and she immediately
volunteered to come and play with our child. Two months later, it was
ten improv players and we always explained the program in improv lingo.
We kept looking for appropriate improv games and techniques that could
help us reach our goal. And Luka’s development skyrocketed.
After a little more than twelve months of therapy according to the Son-Rise®
method, with a lot of improv players volunteering as facilitators and
one social worker, each of whom works with Luka in his play room for four
to six hours a week, our son
· makes and keeps eye contact easily
· has learned to chew
· eats and drinks on his own, including everything that we eat
· brushes his teeth
· is starting to be toilet-trained
· his height and his weight are once again age-appropriate.
But the most beautiful things are that
· his speaking skills are now age-appropriate, too, according to
the physician
· he actively makes contact with people, including children his
age
· he accepts and even asks for physical contact
· his attention span is also age-appropriate
We
have found an integrative preschool for Luka where an educator and an
educational therapist will be working with us following the Son-Rise®
method to enable Luka to learn, within a safe environment, how to interact
with peers.
The physician and the social workers we are in contact with all agree
that the program has been a huge success for Luka and that it needs to
continue. Unfortunately, there is no financial support for the program
within the system of German health insurance, since it has not been validated
scientifically nor are there acknowledged Son-Rise® therapists in
Germany. We therefore take regular trips to the US for further training
and will have to invite acknowledged therapists over to Germany. Although
we receive (independently of the program) financial support of 205 €
a month and an annual contribution of 406 €, which we are very grateful
for, the money cannot cover the costs of Luka’s therapeutic program
for this year.
The costs of Luka’s Son-Rise® training in 2008 will amount
to about 25,000 €.
This sum includes
· two one-week training courses at the institute in the US
· monthly feedback sessions and consulting by the institute via
video feedback and
phone conferences
· inviting a certified Son-Rise® therapist over for seven days
to work with us and give us
and our team, which by now consists of twelve people, feedback and supervision
· further therapeutic material, in accordance with Luka’s
developmental stage
· the construction of a “Yes” room on the premises
of Luka’s preschool.
We will continue to carry the costs of the program ourselves as much
as we can – but because of the time-consuming demands of the treatment
our income as free-lance actors and theatre youth facilitators has fallen
below a living wage for a family of three.
Since we also want to be able to reach and inform other families with
special children, we started fund-raising, by asking for support and then
founding the NGO "Artists Meet Autism e.V.", holding events
and trainings.
To get to know the program and Luka better, please visit our website
www.fuer-Luka.de (which, so far, is only
in German, but we are working hard on the English version). If you would
like to visit us or pass through, you are welcome to. The program’s
playing sessions take place daily from 9 to 12 AM and from 4 to 7 PM,
a biweekly supervision and training session is on Thursdays from 7 to
9 PM. Also, if you would like to support us - financially
or in any othe way - just contact us.
Thank
you very much for taking the time to read this.
Improvise your daily life relaxed and with joy
Best improv regards
Deniz and Christiane Döhler
Players at Improtheater Berlin: the WäM!,
Paternoster and Fatma-Express
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